Fat and Fucked

Fat and Fucked, Ep. 25 - Writin' Poems and Breakin' Chairs with Caleb Luna

On this episode of Fat and Fucked, Suzy and Krista are joined by the talented, brilliant, and hilarious Dr. Caleb Luna, aka Dr. Chairbreaker.  In a candid and thought-provoking hour, Caleb discusses the colonial hierarchy of the body, dating while fat in a town obsessed with thinness (L.A.), and centering fatness during sex.  They also read us selections from their best-selling book of poetry entitled Revenge Body (Black Lawrence Press).  Prepare to be moved, y'all.  Be fat, be fab, and be free!

Fat and Fucked, Ep. 24 - Superb Secondhand Style with Kelsey Conser

Join Krista and Suzy as they have a conversation with the delightfully irreverent Kelsey Conser, owner of Portland, Oregon's plus-size-only secondhand store, I Want Seconds.  In this relatable and amusing hour, Kelsey talks about finding and cultivating a personal style, the importance of building fat community, and the whimsically macabre decor of her living room.  Listen in to get everyone's take on the glorious sequin, and maybe get inspired to try some clothes with a little bit of pizazz! Who loves ya, babies?  WE DO.  Be fat, be fab, and be free. 

Fat and Fucked, Ep. 23 - Drugs and Hip Hop and Dungeons, Oh My!

Join Dr. Krista and Suzy as they talk to JayDanger, a Renaissance man of hip hop, visual art, and BDSM.  Jay shares with us where his music and art are taking him, and how his former profession as a drug dealer brought him into sex and dating in a larger body in an unexpected way.  Listen in for Jay's refreshing honesty, and a perspective that we haven't yet explored on Fat and Fucked - a fat cis white dude!  Thanks for listening - be fat, be fab, and be free!

Fat and Fucked, Ep. 22 - Glorifying Confidence with The Vivienne Rose

On this episode, join Dr. Krista and Suzy for a fun and risque chat with model, muse, and professional domme Vivienne Rose.  We talk about the transformative power of travel, the difference between face sitting, squashing, and smothering, and the importance of writing thank you notes.  Vivienne shares with us her journey to a place of glorifying confidence, and urges all of us to seek the same.  As always, be fat, be fab, and be free! 

Fat and Fucked, Ep. 21 - ADHD, Intuitive Eating and OOH LOOK A BUNNY!

In the latest episode, Suzy and Krista talk about their late diagnoses of ADHD, the links between ADHD and fat bodies, and the struggles of eating intuitively with a neurodivergent brain.  Both personal and informative, listen in to find out how ADHD can be a superpower, learn the 10 principles of intuitive eating, and hear about which chores are the absolute fucking worst for our two neurospicy hosts.  As always, be fat, be fab, and be free!

Fat and Fucked, Ep. 20 - How Burlesque and Kink Led Mx. Pucks A'Plenty to Fat Joy

Hello again, sweet listeners! After a lil hiatus, Suzy and Krista are back with the inimitable Pucks A'Plenty!  Join us as we dish about how fat burlesque and fat kink created a roadmap to fat joy for Pucks, who, in turn, works so hard to share fat joy with others.  After eight years on the burlseque scene, Pucks founded Fatlesque Fest NW and worked with a team to produce the first FatCon in Seattle, all while raising their son to be a kind, compassionate human, and enjoying life inside of their polycule. Pucks dives deep with us as we talk about creating fat community, how to celebrate their favorite holiday of Thickmas, and their new kink: using fat joy to piss off trolls.  We hope you enjoy this conversation as we much as we did! 

You can support Pucks' work with Fatlesque Fest NW and FatCon by clicking HERE.

SHOW NOTES

ChubRub Clothing plus size fashion

Fetlife online BDSM community

BLOOM dating app

Feeld dating "for open minded individuals"

Leather Reign Seattle leather/kink fest

Kinkfest Portland, OR

 

 

 

Fat and Fucked, Ep. 19 - Self Care Is Sacred: Sometimes We All Need A Break

 

In an intimate and amusing half-hour, Dr. Krista and Suzy discuss Suzy's experience with socialized medicine in a fat body, Krista's journey into the intersection of ADHD and intuitive eating, and the importance of self-care in an exhausting, oppressive culture.  Our hosts are taking a much-needed break for a couple of months, but they'll be back soon with hot fresh fat lib content.  Who loves ya, babies?  WE DO.  Take good care of yourself and we'll do the same. 

 

Krista and Suzy warmly invite listener feedback, questions, and shared experiences. Listeners can support the podcast by subscribing to Patreon, and leaving reviews. Hit us up with any thoughts or stories at @fatandfuckedpod on Instagram or email fatfabfree@gmail.com.  Be fat, be fab, and be free!

 

RESOURCES

I Want Seconds plus size secondhand

The principles of intuitive eating

Neurished Eating with ADHD - free workshop

 

Fat and Fucked, Ep. 18 - Body Empowerment Via Boudoir Photography, with Sophia Apostol of Fat Joy Pod

On this week's episode of Fat and Fucked, Sophia Apostol of Fat Joy pod joins Suzy and Krista to discuss her journey as a podcaster, her experience writing fat sex, the importance of choosing joy, and the "glory of a fat body" that she found in herself with a boudoir photo session.  Tune in for this fun, thoughtful, and informative conversation if you need a dose of fat joy in your life!  And I mean, really, who among us doesn't?!

Krista and Suzy warmly invite listener feedback, questions, and shared experiences. Listeners can support the podcast by subscribing to Patreon and leaving reviews. Hit us up with any thoughts or stories at @fatandfuckedpod on Instagram or email fatfabfree@gmail.com. ! Keep on loving your fabulous fat selves, and catch us next episode!

Resources:

Aphantasia

Adrienne Maree Brown  and the liberation of pleasure

Jeanie Finlay , director of Yr Fat Friend documentary about Aubrey Gordon

neural entrainment and the synchronization of brain waves in response to storytelling

Gottman's repair bids

Hyperion Cantos series by Dan Simmons

Volcano the newest album from Jungle

Mel Tufts, boudoir photographer